The Zone and Flow

I was reminded of one of the optimal ways I can get myself to that place where not only do I have the ideas flowing, I also have the motivation to carry me through the activity (however many of them).

 

Surprisingly, it’s using a REALLY old tablet (until I figure out how to root it so I can ‘up’ the system storage), which due to its age…I only am able to keep a limited amount of apps. One I use often is Opera Mini (somehow even less resource exhaustive than the native browser app) to collect posts that would remind me when it is time to create content (either for public consumption — or for clients).

 

Maybe it’s while having a meal (I’m okay eating near phones or tablets — but not a laptop of desktop…) or while cooking.

 

Does one activity come to mind that just gets you there?

 

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Clients

An extension of my post earlier.

I limit talking about this particular income stream because I intentionally limit the people I serve in this area (I’m happy and their happy too because we both get to spend significant time with each other).

To get the best results:

  • Think of ways you can apply this concept to your brand.
  • Read as many entries as you can! Because one of them might be the trigger you need to unblock your creativity. (Yeah I know, that means it’s not likely that you’ll end up as a client…but that’s okay.)
  • Read the FAQ (even if it is cheeky…its still informative!) — if we end up working together…that’s a quick download. Definitely helpful for me to know if we can bond over other things. (Not a requirement…it just moves you up the list!)
  • Understand that I really do constantly generate ideas. Really! And nothing would make my day more than knowing that they are in good hands.

Then

Decide the arrangement you’d be most comfortable with when you send me a message:

  • Fixed Budget (Spots available: 4)- only for previous clients.
  • Results first then Payment (Spots available: 8) – I spend time learning about your brand to find action items (experiments, tests, strategies…) to implement. Then my fee is a percentage (35%) of the results you get. And yes, that means if the result is $180,000 over that period…then my fee is $63,000.

 

Though the first option is decidedly simpler. I give my clients the second option because that way, they already have what they plan to pay for…so I’ll know the client is happy — which means the odds are VERY VERY low for a refund. Less admin stuff to deal with, which means, I can focus on adding more value. 🙂

 

 CAUTION:

If you are someone who is only concerned with impressions (fancy website, photo driving a Maserati GranCabrio — so people would be drawn to you) rather than results (e.g. $72,000 increase sales after 8 months): you are not a fit.

Tempted to try your luck to see if you can ‘game’ the system? Well, no matter how you approach me (by filling up an application form, reaching out directly, or even somehow getting recommended by a current client)…in the end…if you are not a fit, it’ll come out at some point.

Ponder this: Wouldn’t you rather  spend all those hours finding someone who is a better fit for you rather than wait for the day that I’ll say: ‘Sorry…I wouldn’t be able to help you’?

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The Best Way To Reach Me

As I was having a quick look and update on ‘My Cheeky FAQ’ I realised that it might help if there was a specific entry (and I can’t wait to hear from you if this post indeed helped!) that helps you know how to best send me a message.

 

  • Tumblr – I am on there at least once a fortnight (unless intentionally focusing on completing something and my fan tendencies need to be ‘on hold’ because they are a hindrance rather than a compliment!)
  • YouTube – Though sometimes notifications cross over with Google+ — I still find it a handy playform to send (and receive!) private messages.
  • Google+ – apparently there’s a way to send me messages even if I am not ‘online’ (I’ll get your notifications and that would prompt me to check my messages)
  • Form – This comes in handy if you are on a device that you avoid using to log-in to your various social media accounts. Even if you don’t put your email address, as long as you give me your Tumblr / YouTube / Google+ handle, and I can chase you up there.

 

 

What you’ll need in your message:

  • your email address!
  • How I can help you. (Really. Tell me! Don’t worry about sounding all ‘sales-ey’. Because the sooner I find out how I can add value to you, the sooner I am able to generate ideas! It’s as easy as completing this statement: ‘Leigh, I want _____ to happen. Can you help?’ If there are multiple items, take some time to consider what is most important for you to achieve. Whether it be finding someone who is equally smitten by BrainDead, or needing creative juice to improve your interactions with people you serve.)
  • If you have references (such as my tweet or a post), it would help a LOT if you include it too!

 

 

 

 


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Thinking Music

Somehow I am able to get a lot of thinking done while listening to Jack Johnson Albums.

 

How’d I go about my discovery? I was letting the car idle while parked so I could do my monthly running the warm then cold A/C for approximately 10-15 minutes each cycle. I noticed that as I let my thoughts run free…I kept getting ideas to progress projects I was working on (plus ideas for new projects!). I then looked at what was playing then realised I was listening to one of Jack’s album (It might have been ‘Bushfire Fairytales’)

 

Probably not good for ‘driving music’ for me. 🙂

 

After having that revelation, I decided to make a similar scale for music:

  • Music ImmersionJose Gonzales: Veneer (I first found out about him when he did the score for ‘The Secret Life of Walter Mitty’ — I was mesmerised by the end credits song probably because not only did it ‘feel’ and ‘sound’ like it was an extension of the film…the lyrics also made me feel so optimistic about the next hour, day, month, and years…).
  • Idea Generation Music – Will have to do some testing, so far Jack Johnson’s albums fit here.
  • Repetitive Tasks – I mix reviewing Deezer’s 40 million tracks (in the process of setting up a mailing list for this project — so you can easily sign up for updates!), to find tracks that I’d be keen to add to my ‘Music Immersion list’
  • Conversation Background – just something to cancel out the sound so there is less chance of being overheard by others. Somehow a mix of Electronic Dance Music and Songs with Motivational Lyrics fit here.
  • Focus – Quiet

 

 

What I found what works best, is if my attention ends up wandering — I add something to do (so the tasks gets varied in a way), so one way I ‘fill’ those moments is to have a Deezer mix playing (which I sift through, finding which ones that would get reviewed later, and others to flag so it doesn’t show up in that particular mix again!)

 

 

What about ‘driving music’ you ask? Oh I still am working on that one! Because it has to be something that forces me to be always looking out on the road. My rule is that even if something comes on that don’t like listening to, I’d wait until I was at the lights before changing the track or folder (or parked if I needed to switch CDs or fiddle with an externally connected audio device).

 

Have you found some of the albums that makes you more productive?

 

 

 


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Trust Experiments

As I was watching Joel Peterson’s talk, I was hit with an idea on how to apply incrementally trusting someone (100 times in little ways).

 

Since I’ve already accepted that sometimes it matters little what I say, and more on that initial connection with the person — I’m going to approach the experiment similarly. Instead of focusing more on fine-tuning (which I probably will…a bit) the right thing to say, It’ll be more on focusing on giving opportunities for the other person to communicate back: ‘I like interacting with you…let’s talk more!’

 

Experiment #1: I leave some items, and ask if the person would be open to watch it (letting them know I’d be back in 10 minutes). The items would be stuff that I am okay giving away (and would not feel gutted in case they get lost). Also, these items must have some value to me (books or films I like). It’s a bit like saying (in action form): ‘Hey, I’d like to take this risk and just trust you. What do you think?’

 

Also…in case I do hand over the items to a curious person — I’m also going to make sure I mention: ‘Oh…if you’d like something to read while waiting, there is one book there that you can check out!’

 

In respect to security, I will ensure that all the items are view-able by the person. So, if the items are in a bag, the bag has to be see-through.

 

The approach is also inspired by Scott Adams (he leans towards Systems rather than goals). Some possible results of the experiment:

  • I find another kindred spirit (bestie for life!)
  • We get talking and that person is actually looking for someone to help grow one of their brands (new client!)
  • An opportunity to introduce them to some brands I like.
  • I learn more about how different people trust, which would in turn help me advise current clients.

 

I’m planning to do more of these experiments in the future as ideas come up! If you’re thinking there might be an opportunity for me to do this too (I think you are right!)

 

 

Do you have some memorable (or even no so?) experiences on how you were able to trust someone in your circle by increments?

 

 

 


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Anxiety and Feedback

The idea in exploring the connection was not as painful as I thought!

 

The idea for this post came from a conversation I had with Rebecca. (Thanks Rebecca for your blessing!)

I think this might be the start of a series of posts about anxiety. It all started more than five months ago when I floated the idea to Rebecca about doing a podcast episode about a book about feedback.

I sent her a link to an NPR feature.

The book is called ‘Thanks for the Feedback’ — and if you’re listening while reading through the entry. You should be able to click on that title and that will send you to a page on NPR. If you have the copy of the book now in your hands — you might notice the interesting notes on the cover (I thought it was a nice touch with the topic on hand!)

Another link I found for the book is their Google Talk.

When I mentioned that I was hoping to do an episode because of what she shared, she was ecstatic (as the book sounded really interesting, and she’d want to know if I did do a podcast episode)

This was the post that was quite instrumental in the lead up to our conversation about feedback.

So if I start a conversation with someone who follows Elementary very closely, and that person finds out that I only watch the non-graphic episodes (usually the one that involve Moriarty I skip)…and just says something like: ‘you shouldn’t judge those story elements if you skip them’. In that situation…I’d likely just shrug and say: ‘That may be so.’ — and not make an effort to communicate with this person ever again!

I just take it (no matter how rude the comment directed at me…and even if it takes me days or weeks to get over it)…as: ‘We’re not a fit, so…you might as well keep your distance.’ — though the level headed version of that would be: “I’m not your kind of person”

And when Rebecca said that it was a very healthy way of thinking (that instead of letting myself get affected by this person’s point of view, or however unkind the treat me — I focus on whether this person is a fit for me. And if not — I walk away from further interactions), and she wishes to have that kind of positivity in her life…I thought: ‘You’re my kind of person! My Tribe ! Similar Values!’

As I have the ‘idea gene’ (oh yeah some days I can’t keep up!), my next thought was: ‘Hey! What better way to see if I can pitch some ideas for her to try!’

 

So…I continued my questions…to make sure I  was able to get as much understanding as I could of her point of view before my idea pitches. Rebecca shares that her anxiety may have to do with her inability to consistently think in that way. What happens is if she gets a comment from someone…and because she spends too much time thinking about it…it ends up becoming negative.

Since action was quite important to me…I thought I’d ask if there was a baby step she thought she could take.

Then I got this answer: “I think I need to try to be more positive? Or maybe just be accepting about what people say about me?”

I thought ‘uh oh’…too general. Then inspiration hit.

I suggested she watch ‘It’s Kind of a Funny Story‘ because of that particular scene that accurately represents how a person’s thoughts can just go on a downward spiral based on an unexpected event in their life.

I didn’t mention it to Rebecca yet, but if you’re thinking of collecting a LOT of material about this, you can grab a copy of Dan Harris’ book (10% Happier) — as he has his own ‘automatic downward spiral story that involves Duluth’. I’m hoping Dan’s sense of humour would appeal to yours too! It did with mind while I was reading the book.

So back to ‘Thank You for The Feedback’. I haven’t yet finished the book. Though, what I’ll do, is just grab a concept from the notes I’ve made so far and that can be the starting off point.

“When we give feedback we notice that the receiver [the recipient] isn’t good at receiving it. When we receive feedback we notice that the giver isn’t good at giving it.”

Sounds like a double standard right (Though it’s quite easy to fall into that kind of thinking if we were looking at things only through our lens)?
So a really nice way to sum up the heart of the book: ‘Doug and Sheila give ideas so we could deliver feedback in a way that the person we’re giving it to would be more receptive’. And on our end, ways on how we can be more receptive to feedback…and with practice we are able to learn from anyone.

Stressing out looking for a coach right now (finding the right one)? You don’t need to stress anymore! So…instead of finding the right coach — you can just learn from just about anyone (too much of a reach? Hehehe — If your cynical voice is being loud right now…just quiet that voice down).
If you already have a growth mindset (including the acceptance that in every feedback you receive…there is something that you can use…even if it just ends up as a reminder). This is probably why people resistant to change are usually the ones that are quite draining to be with (try it!). So you can make that book as a litmus test for people around you — to find out how they react (are they for change…or not?). And you might find that those people who haven’t reacted positively about the book might be the same people who are a drain when they are around you.

Three forms of feedback:

  • Appreciation – “I’m really happy you’re my mum”
  • Coaching – “you can put less stress on your spine if you sit up straight”
  • Evaluation – “Based on your sales figures, you are currently at second place” (So those jeans that either are too big or too small for you…there you go!)

 

The reason it’s quite challenging to identify these, is because sometimes we are looking for one kind, and then sometimes miss that we’re actually being given another kind. Once the kind of feedback is identified…I’ve realised it’s so much easier to not only drill down — it’s also easier to decide if you’d still want to waste your energy in finding out more.

It’s like a sorting box:

  • To The Bin
  • Maybe
  • Something that can definitely help

 

Another thing I’d like to mention is one of the biases that comes out when feedback goes from the giver to us. Because these biases are present, we are unlikely able to classify the kind of feedback we receive   This one is called ‘Truth Trigger’ — anything that doesn’t sit quite right. If we get feedback that touches that specific trigger, whether that feedback be expected or unexpected — the result is the same, that what the person tells us gets us a bit unhinged.

For me one example was a particularly stinging one — it happened awhile back…and it just…I was just surprised when it happened.

 

It was quite unexpected because the person where it came from was not the sort of person who’d act that way (you know…’rude’ or ‘like a jerk’).

When I have initial exchanges with someone, all those build up a person in a good way or in a bad way. And with this person — the information points towards: ‘You can trust her, she is your kind of person’.

It was during one of the Q&A process sessions…I go through sending perspective interviewees questions, then they come back with answers. And because it’s a long form format — it’s not just: ‘here’s your questions’ — then when I get your answers they gets published. So this person was going through the process (I think we got to the second round of questions by then?) then things about her started to unravel.

It usually doesn’t take this long before my ‘fit alarm’ goes off. Somehow this person fell through the cracks and managed to evade it. I remember thinking of ways on how to be stricter in my filter — maybe test first an initial correspondence to see if the ‘real them’ would come out.

 

After a day or so being upset at what happened and thinking to myself: ‘how could I avoid this happening ever again?’, I thought that I should just accept that things like that happen (people who have a tendency to be unkind and struggle to listen well would occasionally slip through the net I’ve set up) and what is important is that as soon as I recognise that I should stay away from this person…I act.
So while reading her reply, I just noticed something was a bit off. So I asked: ‘Was there something I could have done to make it clearer?’ — I mean…rather than: ‘What the!? Did you read my email before saying yes!? I had mentioned the approximate amount of questions!’

So the reply I got was something like: ‘I’m only answering these questions because I had some time, but after this no more.’ —- My brain was fuming! I’m thinking: this lady didn’t read anything at all (well that’s not true, she did read something — but somehow is only picking then twisting what she has read however she wants it to come across)! ‘What!? What!? What!?’ (Replay the above…Chorus of: ‘Did you ready my email!?’)
This was what really set my ‘Truth Trigger’ off: ‘No one will answer 50 questions’

This time my brain was sizzling!? ‘Whhaaaaaat!? — What is this person on? I mean…it’s clear that people ‘have’ (and not just in general!!!). Look…look at the Q&A’s!!! I put in time to make that Q&A invite for you as clear as possible and not only you don’t read it…you don’t even check out the samples!!!’

So once I’ve calmed down. I thankfully was able to write something less fumey like: ‘Would it be okay to cancel our Q&A?’ — I knew…that was it. Walk away.

The reason that I was just going off my memory, is that I didn’t want to look at those emails (my gut says I’ll be kicking up those feelings of being ‘pissed off’ again). Yes, my ‘fiery personality’ might burst out again. And if you’re thinking ‘fire in my heart’ is a reference to that…okay…maybe. I know that I was thinking of something else when I wrote it (more like the energy to move towards progressing a project that is particularly close to my heart), though I wouldn’t discount it, because emotions can be pretty crafty!

There’s another one (yay! Bonus!?). Though none of my ‘brain fuming’ amusement. I think it’s quite okay to add this one (it’s called ‘Identity Triggers’) because there is a bit of an overlap with the ‘Truth Trigger’ in a way…that it’s about us. One way to find an example for it is: ‘Remember the time when someone didn’t like a film that you liked (especially when you shared how much you liked it)?’. And the person who you shared it to didn’t like the film? Then you felt offended somehow? One reason for that could be that your identity is linked to some part of the film. So When the person didn’t like the film — it feels like they are saying: ‘I don’t like you’.

Another source is Simon Sinek’s talk (USI) — where he mentions about Mac users — if you insult a mac (even if its not theirs)…you’re basically insulting them.

It’s a cool book! 🙂 And I noticed that one of the notes I’ve made that I don’t have any issues with receiving feedback anymore. Even after writing that…I still think that I was able to get something for being a better ‘feedback receiver’.

If you do end up reading the book. Let me know which section you found the most helpful!

 

I thought that I wouldn’t be veering off what I’ve written, and what ended up happening is that I had to go back to the text while listening to the audio post*

 

 

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How I Get Paid

One thing I’m constantly asked about is: “How Do you Get Paid?”. Though it is from different perspectives.

So one way I get paid that isn’t information that is available easily is (The Cheeky FAQ page has some links) how I am paid when I make music.

Here it is:
•    If Someone gives the album a forever home
•    Each Track Played in platforms
•    Each time someone uses my music in their Youtube video.

Content ID - Confirmed - 2016-03-22

 

 

The list of distributors (for purchase and streaming)…are here.

Though if you’d ask me which ones I’d prefer…I’d pick CD Baby for purchases, and Deezer for streaming.

More on Why:

  • CD Baby – I get instant sales figures (for platforms like iTunes, it might take a month for a purchase to show up)
  • Google Play – I get 40% of the sale (either by track or by album purchase)
  • Deezer – They pay $0.01105478 per track streamed (So every 100,000 plays I get $1,105.48) the highest paying streaming platform to date.
  • Spotify – They pay $0.00163800 per track streamed (So every 100,000 plays I get $163.80) from the history I noticed a fluctuation of the payouts (sometimes as low as $0.00054600 — which is $54.60 every 100,000 plays)
  • Google Locker – They pay $ 0.00011466 per track streamed (So every 100,000 plays I get $11.47) – from the history I noticed a fluctuation of the payouts ($0.00012103 and 0.00011830)
  • Youtube – If someone uses one of my songs in their videos (no matter where they got the audio)…and I’d get a cut of any revenue earned (when I did a test…with one of my tracks….I noticed this note from Youtube: “Ads may appear on your video due to the presence of this song. Removing this song may remove ads from your video, and may allow you to monetize the video if eligible”.)
    More on Song Eraser here: https://support.google.com/youtube/?p=song-eraser
  • Direct Payment – If a creator/listener found huge value in any of the tracks, and would like to say thanks (i.e. I gave them a go ahead to use the song in their video or presentation…and as a result they are convinced that the music played a big role…and would like to give a financial equivalent of the value they received) I’ll arrange a specific link for them to checkout through Paypal (similar to my appreciation links).

 

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Will keep the stats updated as soon as more starts to come in! (and if you’d like to help out with the testing of platforms…I can let you know which ones I don’t have any data yet…and you can make your purchase or stream from there!)

 

 

 

Are you in the process of gathering your sales data? I’d love to get a chance to cheer you on!

 

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Don’t Just Nod

Feel like how you were treated as a customer was unacceptable? Don’t worry about being the rare case (if your supplier claims that you are the first to be unhappy with their service), instead keep in mind that if you are able to do something — there is a likelihood that you’ll spare at least one person the grief you’re experiencing now.

Now I’m not advocating doing something like raising your voice (or worse…screaming or calling them every negative name you could think about), instead do something by harnessing that energy towards something that could result in the kind of change you are hoping for.

With regards to that supplier, maybe you can check in with one of the executives — and mention what you went through, and some suggestions on how the experience can be made better for you. Worse case, you say farewell to them and go with your second choice (who now becomes your first choice!) —- best case, your current supplier will be forever in debt…and throw in some sweeteners with your current agreement with them as a sign of thanks…and in hopes that you’ll stay with them for years to come.

One of the projects that sprung out of my frustration of the accepted thinking: ‘you stick by your current circle, even if you’ve outgrown them’ — helped me direct that frustration in a constructive way (catch someone when they do something you appreciate — so they’d be encouraged to do more of it).

Even if I don’t get the kind of appreciation I hope for each time I send one of the notes, I know that each one gets me closer to my new ‘five‘.

 

From different perspectives:

 

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Help!

I know I need a coach so I could move twice or thrice (or even ten times?) the pace I’m going now.

 

Two challenges about that:

  • If I pick the wrong one — I’d end up wasting my time and money, which are both in short supply at the moment.
  • I already know that I am not that effective when absorbing information from a book or course (I’ve bought a number of books because of an initial emotional attachment prior to the purchase). Action points usually come when I am in the process of thinking about a snippet.

 

Yep…I still have a bit of the residue of ‘magic bullet’ thinking: “Ah! This course would solve all my issues with getting the cash flow I’d like”. Which is a bit like my brain constantly bugging me (yep…just like a restless passenger during a roadtrip): “Are We There Yet?” (aka: “Have I found the ‘Secret Shortcut’ to getting to six figures?”)

 

One way I could approach the ‘coach search’ issue — is just spend a bit of time reaching out to 50 coaches. Craft a pitch, then see how each would react (I think this would be a bit like a ‘hero test’ too — seeing a bit on how someone would react privately…when not being watched or overheard by the public. I understand that there is a chance at least one of them might come back to me with a bit of attitude — or worse…acting like a jerk towards a perspective client).

 

But then, finding a coach might not be the frog I need to eat. It may be one of the other tasks I’ve been slowly inching towards: like drastically reducing clutter.

 

Have you found the right coach for you (which was a result in finding the right system to find that coach)? I’m all ears if you’re open to tell me the story (or send me the link to your post about it). 🙂

 

Do you have clutter you have to wade through too? I’d love to get a chance to cheer you on!

 

 

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Being You

Though Brad Montague might skip an episode from one of his favourite podcasts just because it has him in it, I certainly have a different view!

Do you wonder too if there is nothing to learn from you? That’s the challenge isn’t it? To be able to see yourselves as your biggest fans see you.

The trick I’ve been attempting to teach my brain is this scenario: If I were advising someone who was in my situation, would I be as tough on them? Or would I be more encouraging.

That (silly?) perspective change, helps a lot when I find out (or get reminded!) when something didn’t turn out as I hoped.

 

Just like Brad said in his Creative Mornings talk: “Huggers gotta hug” 🙂

 

Hoping to be more of a hugger than a hater? I’d love to get a chance to cheer you on!

 

 

 


 

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